Controlled: Can I Trust My Partner?
Journalist Daisy Maskell reveals shocking new data showing reports to the police from under-30s of an abusive partner have almost tripled in the last 10 years.
With analysis of two million police reports, and a survey of almost a thousand victim-survivors, Daisy investigates why partner abuse is surging among young people, and asks what can be done.
She meets victim-survivors to learn about the devastating toll of abuse, and hears how inexperience, childhood exposure, and social media - which sometimes normalises and even romanticises abuse - are all making young people more vulnerable.
Together with her boyfriend, she launches a bold experiment to explore the powers of stalkerware: hidden apps used by abusers to secretly tap into their victims’ phones and spy on them 24/7. We reveal that police have seen a massive increase in complaints about this technology in the last three years.
Daisy also goes to Hampshire to learn about Project Foundation - a unique and innovative police and charity-run programme tackling abusers aged 18-30. And she meets young survivors campaigning for mandatory relationships education to help 16-18 year olds to better tell the difference between toxic “love” and the real thing.
RUNTIME:
47 Minutes
FILMED, PRODUCED & DIRECTED BY:
Rosemary Baker
FILMED & PRODUCED BY:
Natasha McCabe
EXECUTIVE PRODUCER:
Brian Woods
RELEASED:
2025
Reviews
Daisy Maskell investigates the shocking surge in partner abuse among under-30s.
The Sun
Presenter Daisy Maskell is never shy about taking a hands-on approach to her subject matter.
The Guardian
To find out exactly how much it can reveal, Maskell and her boyfriend use stalkerware themselves, with disturbing results.
Royal Television Society